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I will try to remember… to adjust my expectations to fit within the scope of my own unique blend of gifts and abilities.
When we are systematically not heard in a significant relationship, it is intentional. It is a form of oppression…
His life was defined by hard work and his love for and devotion to my mother. He was fiercely dedicated to providing for my brother and me as we grew up. It’s the way he loved us.
Transition from Beside the Point to Becoming the Point of Your Own Life Think Labrador Retriever. Wide-eyed, faithful, forgiving and loyal, until… He insisted on my presence at every meeting with attorneys, each deposition and appearance in court. I believed he needed me, my steadfast love and support. My demeanor was calm and quiet. When...
It is true when I think about it, I am surprised by contentment. It is not what I considered in my decision to live here. My reasons were strictly practical, proximity to where my dad lives in a residential care home and budget constraints. Six months have passed since moving day… I am drawn to the light outside – beyond the living room window,...
The healing of old wounds is not optional but essential to protect our lives from undesireable consequences.
It’s true we shouldn’t dwell in the past and rehearse the hurts and injustices we’ve suffered, or our regrets and shame. It’s also true that unless we have dealt properly with a shattering experience of the past, faced the pain and processed it in a healthy way, the unhealed wounds will inflict further injury.
To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. - Lewis B. Smedes If God's forgiveness is enough for you, how do you explain self-condemnation and lack of self-forgiveness, considering the grace of God? When we see articles or books on the topic of forgiveness, we expect them to be about how to forgive someone else....
It was a temptation to scream this phrase at the top of my lungs. Obviously, stepping off terra firma into outer space was not an option. Rather, what I desperately needed was to be free of chronic fatigue, stress, anxiety, negative emotions and erratic behaviors.
Sleepless nights spent rehashing painful events must also end.
What brought me to this place?
If someone told you to ‘drop the act’, it would seem a bit harsh, right? That is precisely what I was told – to my face – by two people who cared about me.First, there was Cheryl. We were each married with small children and attended the same church. Our two families spent time at each other’s homes to barbecue and play games.
Leah was betrayed by her father who devised a scheme to marry her off to a man named Jacob, who was passionately in love with her younger sister. It does sound like the plot for a soap opera, but you can read all about it in the first book of the Bible, Genesis Chapter twenty-nine. True stories are almost always the most intriguing.